Written by Betty Harvey on June 12, 2019
At Shinjuku club, cross-dressing men let their hair, guard down
RecentLike many haunts in Shinjuku Ni-chome, Tokyo’s gay quarter, Onnanoko Club (Girls’ Club) seeks to provide a home from home for its clientele, with staff chatting at ease with customers to take their minds off the stresses of daily life.
The smiling hostesses are decked out in tasteful, carefully chosen outfits, with immaculate makeup and hairstyles.
Only one element of the stylish Japanese woman’s arsenal is missing — nail art. Their neatly trimmed but bare fingernails are the only hint that outside of the bar, the staff dress and act as society expects every man to do.
Manager Kuriko, 31, sits poised on a low pink sofa with all the mannerisms of a confident young woman, but describes himself as a man and goes by male pronouns.
“In my private life I’m a man, of course, and I dress as a woman for work — it’s both incredibly tiring …
Written by Betty Harvey on May 20, 2019
How to Run a Successful Bar
RecentWhether you manage a pub or nightclub, the challenges of running a successful bar go far beyond just keeping customers’ glasses full. You need to ensure that you’re well stocked, serving tasty drinks, creating events to excite potential customers, and protecting yourself from any potential liabilities. While managing a bar may be difficult, we broke it down into 8 simple steps to help you make a profit from your bar business.
8 Steps to Run a Bar Successfully
Whether you own a bar and want to improve your profits or you’re considering starting a new bar, following these 8 steps to learn how to run a bar.
1. Keep Your Bar Stocked
Keeping your bar stocked goes far beyond just filling your back bar cooler or refrigerator with beer, liquor, and wine. You will want to track what drinks your customers are drinking and which types of alcohol you’re using …
Written by Betty Harvey on April 20, 2019
Crossdressing Tips for Beginning Crossdressers
RecentThink you’ll never look like a sexy female?
Crossdresser PhotoDon’t feel bad, sweetie – you’re not alone. I once had that same mindset. Few transgender girls went further – starting with less – than yours truly. I was once a non-passable, pudgy mutt.
Do you ever harbor transition fantasies: I often imagined getting breast augmentation or at very least – seeing some breast growth by taking female hormones.
I “lived” almost every conceivable aspect of transgender expression during my forty+ year transgender journey – a closeted crossdresser, a wild and crazy club T-girl, a DRAG Queen performer – and finally: a full time transsexual woman.
Ever fantasize of changing from a gal that looks – like this?
To this?
Yep – that’s me – in both photos!
I’m proud of where I came from and I’m forever dedicated to helping beginners and seasoned vets alike get the most from their …
Written by Betty Harvey on February 6, 2022
Got some latex mask allergies? Here’s how you can manage it
RecentLatex outfits are some of the coolest and kinkiest garments you can find. Everyone loves them — from fashion designers and their models on catwalks to BDSM lovers in their home dungeons. The reason is simple — latex looks good, fits all body types, is affordable, and most importantly, it’s eco-friendly. Also, to enjoy them further, make sure that you purchase them from authentic shops like Laidtex.com.
However, like with some other materials out there, some people might experience allergic reactions while using latex. This is especially true if you wear it on your face as a mask. But don’t worry! It’s not all doom and gloom. You can find ways around it and still enjoy wearing some form of this material. In the following paragraphs, we’ll take a closer look at latex allergy and explain why it occurs.
Why latex triggers allergies
In essence, latex is a form …
Written by Betty Harvey on January 11, 2022
Why drag queens and crossdressers gain more recognition and respect today
RecentDrag Queens and Crossdressers: Who Are They?
To cut a long story short, a crossdresser is a person who likes to don the apparel of the opposite sex to which they were assigned. Simply put, they are men who dress as women and women who dress as men. More than a fashion trend, it usually involves some intimate desire that drives their style, whether they wear their preference in public or choose to keep it private.
Although alternative lifestyles are becoming more acceptable, the idea of breaking social norms, even in the form of clothes we wear, has been very taboo and risqué. But hey, that is often the reason why crossdressers are respected — they are brave!
By the way, transvestite is the dated term for a crossdresser that has been drenched with stigma and is now considered politically incorrect. Just so you know.
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Written by Betty Harvey on October 6, 2021
How to have safe sex in the time of a pandemic
RecentThanks to the sex-positive movement, we no longer talk about sex under a shroud of darkness. There’s no more need to talk about sex as if it was something forbidden, reckless, or wrong. We have come a long way since the times when people knew only what their parents and friends told them about sex, and we have since entered the age of sex positivity, education, and abundance of knowledge.
Sex and safety
Thanks to all these advancements, we know how to practice safe sex, and more importantly, we understand why it’s essential to do so. This has affected society as a whole in many ways — STIs no longer plague us (or kill us), and the unwanted pregnancy rate is down thanks to contraceptives. What’s more, we’ve generally learned how to enjoy sex (while staying safe) and experiment more.
When it comes to sex, we were practically …
Written by Betty Harvey on December 13, 2019
Things to know if you are a beginner in anal play
RecentAnal orgasm is not very common among women, but this practice need not be excluded from the list of possibilities for pleasure. The anal region is a highly vascularized zone. With various nerve endings are re-thought by a fantastic orgasm when sex is done with good foreplay, proper relaxation, well-chosen positions and surrender.
The anal plug is then a custom shaped accessory to enhance the pleasure of anal sex. It came to be used by you in solo career or in partnership, to further explore the regions of pleasure. The smaller plugs make it easier for beginners of anal sex, a good adaptation, as they contribute to relax the muscles of the region. We will see the models below.
Like all sexual intercourse, anal pleasure does not depend only on the act itself. Manipulation of the anus region can be done with fingers or vibrators or with other erotic …
Written by Betty Harvey on October 13, 2019
Can sex toys really improve your sex life?
RecentHave you ever thought of incorporating sex toys into your love life? Well, if not, it’s time you do it. Sex toys make an amazing addition to your sex life. They will add a new dimension to sex life and make things even more interesting and fun. Both of you will discover new forms of ecstasy that you couldn’t even think of till date. Yes, sex toys are really special. The best part is they work wonders to bring you two closer and enrich your life.
The post below offers a brief on how you will benefit from adopting sex toys in your intimate sessions.
Makes it more thrilling
Numerous studies have revealed that adventurous and new activities could stimulate your brain to generate dopamine. What is dopamine? This is a powerful neurotransmitter which elevates sexual desire. Sex toys are all about exploring new intimate adventures with your partner. So, …